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The strengths of messy people in the family that not everyone knows

Báo Gia đình và Xã hộiBáo Gia đình và Xã hội29/11/2024

GĐXH - You should not rush to judge messy people, because they have hidden characteristics and strengths that make them stand out.


There are many people who hold the view that everything in life must be neat and clean to achieve success and progress. Those who have a messy lifestyle are self-indulgent, which is very difficult to accept.

However, few people know that the strengths of messy people are often hidden inside them. Therefore, do not rush to judge people with messy lifestyles, but carefully observe the reasons that lead to that action, to find out the strengths they possess.

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Messy people have a unique way of storing things, so they tend to remember very clearly where important things are kept, whether at home or at work. Illustration photo

Good memory

Organized people follow a certain system and put everything in its proper place, so they don't have to remember everything.

Meanwhile, messy people have a very unique way of storing things, so they tend to remember very clearly where they keep important things, whether at home or at work.

The most important thing when working or living with a messy person is to never clean up their space yourself. It can interrupt their train of thought or mess with their memory of where things are.

If you feel frustrated by the clutter piling up, gently let them know so they can rearrange things based on their own thinking.

Creative genius

To conduct their research, the University of Minnesota (USA) asked messy and clean people how to recycle ping pong balls.

The results were surprising, as messy people came up with creative, groundbreaking answers and ideas.

Additionally, many researchers have found that spontaneity, creativity, and innovation rarely occur in clean spaces.

That's why so many creative geniuses work in messy labs and cluttered studios.

For this group of people, it is not just a mess but also a source of inspiration to find new inventions or great works of art.

Chaos allows for connections to be made between things, which eventually leads to the next great idea.

Optimistic

Cluttered people tend to have a more positive outlook on life and the future.

They believe that they can achieve anything if they put their mind to it, so they tend to be busier in achieving their dreams and stop paying attention to the chaos in their current environment.

Cluttered people are happy with what they do, so don't focus much on the environment they live in.

Come up with a unique organization

Messy people may not know how to arrange things neatly and tidily, but they do have a good mindset and organizational methods to put things on the right track.

In fact, these people always know exactly what their goals are and get them in the shortest possible time.

Most artists, scientists, inventors, and writers work in messy spaces. But that doesn't mean they're lazy.

In that messy space, everything has its own rules and the owner of the room will have his own way to handle it.

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Messy people may not know how to arrange things neatly and tidily, but they actually have a good mindset and organizational methods to put things in the right direction. Illustration photo

Live bravely and flexibly

Because messy people thrive in chaos and disorder, they also respond better to whatever happens in life.

Unlike people who throw tantrums when things get messy, messy people aren't as easily intimidated by change. They're better able to navigate chaotic situations.

Spontaneity, courage and flexibility allow them to untangle knots in their personal lives.

No time wasted on chores

When you have too much to do in a day, it can be difficult to find the energy and mind to clean up.

Setting aside a dedicated schedule for cleaning can be tiring and frustrating, so messy people choose to ignore the mess rather than stress about it.

For this group of people, they do not want to pay attention to the small activities happening around them.

They will clean things up when they have more time. At the same time, messy people do not fight the chaos they face, they just accept it and give in.

This is considered the reason why this group of people is more comfortable than the rest.

More decisive and focused

In 2001, Steve Whittaker and Julia Hirschberg studied the behavior of people who were "neat" (who sorted documents immediately) and people who were "disorganized" (who left papers piled up on their desks or wherever they were convenient).

Surprisingly, researchers found that tidy people kept a lot of useless material.

It's common to immediately categorize materials before really understanding them, knowing where they should be used in what you're doing, and whether or not they should be kept.

When a regulation is implemented that forces these people to get rid of some unnecessary papers, they feel they have become too attached to them.

They can't bear to throw them away even though they have no value anymore, just because they have spent a lot of time sorting and classifying them.

Meanwhile, messy people had better results. They were quite decisive in throwing away unnecessary materials.

And when they do have to sort and organize something, they know it well. As a result, they end up with neater, more practical, and more useful folders.

And the same can happen in your life. According to psychologist Marc Wittman, a vacation that is completely unplanned or poorly planned often seems longer and more fulfilling than one where all the decisions have been made in advance.

Important decisions have to be made at the right time, which means you have to pay more attention to what's going on and thus have richer memories after the fact.



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